Happened to see this entry on Adrian aka AJ's blog which is really interesting as we both exhibit similar thinking. It really set me thinking for quite a long while as I got tons to write about.
I got a soft spot for gals that cry also. If I know the person, I will try my best to stop her from crying. One good example who I can think of, that can voucher for this, is Jamie. Anyway, that is not the main point that I wanted to talk about.
To me, any gal who cried will tugged a cord in my heart whether I know that person or not. It will hurt me most if that person is someone who I know, someone who I care/concern about and most of all, someone I love.
As a man, I can endure pain and hardship but nothing hurts me more than the tears in the eyes of a woman, just like an arrow piercing right through my heart. Sometime, when I see a woman on the street crying, I really wanted to go fro and offer her some tissue to dry her eyes but most of the time, I held back myself...
I always believe that a man should never let a lady/woman/girl cry. Even though this is my firm believe, I had failed to uphold this principle before and it has been haunting me for quite a long time before I learn about things and to slowly forgive myself recently.
For those whom I care about, whenever you felt lost, sad or down, as you slowly let the hot tears flow out, I hope to be there to dry your eyes before the next teardrop fall. I don't know what I can do to make you feel better, I don't know if you trust me well enough to share the burden that is weighing you down. But if you need a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, I will be there. Like as in my blog title says it all, just let me be your shelter...






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